there is so much that goes on in life that we are not aware of, it gets to the point if we are not told what is going on we will fill in blanks to help ourselves come up with answers because answers are always better than just guessing. AND evenually if we are not honest with one another everything will fall around us we will lose friends, lovers, family people who mean the world to us will leave all over something so stupid that all of us can fix, its seems so simple being said here sometimes when i am confronted with certain situations the thoughts in my head seem almost too truthful it scares me to think what the other person will say, will they lie? will they tell me how they are really feeling? In the long run we just dont want to hurt each other.. but we are hurting each other more by not telling each other what we are thinking even if its the truth.