People really have to stop sending mixed messages OKAY?! Say what you fucking mean even if it isn't the nicest thing to be said at least you're being honest. Wanna know what gets under my skin open ended shit just most of it anything to do with it overwhelms me want to know why? Well even if you don't I'm guna tell you aby way because when anything is left open ended someone will twist whatever it is around to make it seem like what you had to say/do as a product of the open ended situation is incorrect, like what you are thinking is totally irrelavant to the circumstance when in all acuality it was open ended so how can anyone blame you for what you did as a result? You dig me.