Ive been thinking about repressed memory because i was giving advice to people on my column and it just brought up things in my mind that have remained in my subconsciousness.  Like this horrible memory i have from when i was a little girl, for awhile i had made it seem like it was a false one, then one day i realized it really happened. No one in my family ever talked to me about it, so it is as if they made it seem like it never happened, everyone just blocked it out. I think they thought i did forget. Maybe thats where all this tension is between my mom and me. I feel like i need to bring it up, but i dont know how.