-I dont think in life you can have the good with out the bad and vise versa, maybe its not exactly 50-50 because some days are more good than bad where as other days are more bad than good. But no matter what in your life you do have both, whether its when you're younger you get all the mostly good days or when you're older you get all the mostly bad days, if you put all of your life together you have a collection of both bad and good. It also has to do with the way you think, if you see your day as being shitty than it will appear it was a bad day because you overlooked the good things that came your way. You have to take time to appreciate it, instead of focusing on what you lack, which everyone around seems to be doing as of lately. Its selfish, to take for granite all that those around you have offered and replace it with your own self pity, because you dont have a girlfriend/boyfriend or your parents didnt tell you that they loved you. How about you take what you weren't given and apply it elsewhere, instead of harping on a lost cause, take some action and you may just find you no longer will feel so worthless/needy.